OK, this is going to be short and to the point. I know you already know this, but just in case: When you are networking with someone in person, whether it is at an event or especially in a one-to-one, the only time you should answer your cell phone is when not answering it could conceivably result in someone bleeding to death. Even then you should apologize profusely to the person with whom you are talking and explain that you would never normally do this, but you would hate to have that death on your conscience.
Anything less than this is disrespectful to the person with whom you are sitting.
Listen, the whole idea of networking is to create mutually beneficial relationships. These are ones in which both parties are equally valuable to the whole. If you answer the phone in mid-conversation it’s just telling them that you are always waiting for someone better to come along and you will abandon them at the drop of a hat.
Or the buzz of your cell phone.
I have call display on my phone for precisely this reason. If it isn't the school (or hubby) calling to tell me that one of the kids is in "dire straits" then I don't answer the phone.
Most of the people I network with are parents and they completely understand. Even the ones who are not parents understand.